Suicide – Solution to Financial & Relationship Problems?
Everyone gets problems in their life, some have financial problems, some have relationship problems etc but suicide is not a real solution for all of these things. Recently we had many discussions on dealing with girls , depression treatment management, avoiding suicidal thoughts, treatment of suicide, treating manic depression & suicide prevention ideas on our suicide blog which can help many suiciders understand what is the real life and its not always about your ownself about also about others happiness.
After writing few articles related to suicide i have recieved several emails with people who were seriously depressed and were looking for some easy & painless ways to commit suicide because they wanted to end all their pains and run away from this world. Dont you think this is a act which is performed by weak people who are just selfish and who think about themselves, and dont even think atleast once about others.
At one point it does look that others are giving you pain, but if you commit suicide you may feel that you will be recovered from the daily tortures but there wont be in any case that others would be happy about this, but its sure that they would miss you a lot. Everyone is linked with someone else and there is always someone who needs you and there is someone who would care about you, at any point make sure that you dont get into quick action of suicide and start thinking about others.
Financial Problems - Go on a long drive or close your room, stay silent and concentrate on your main problems, what may be the root cause of it, can you atleast recover these problems in case of financial problems try to make all your calculations on how to recover the money back or make some plans for clearing off your debts.
If you are working for someone and are in job pressures then you should try to find out whats the real reason behind it, are you fulfilling your duties because everyone is capable of doing everything and its just that sometimes they feel that they cannot do some things and try to delay this work, which just increase your tensions but does not postpone your problems. There are many reason why you can get job related problems because you may be not getting any increments, promotions but bonus on time but everything comes once the time passes. You need to find solutions for these problems rather than filling up your brain with useless plans which can destroy all your family.
Calculate all your total assets, your total expenses every month, try to close down your loss making business and settle down for some months from your savings. If you are out of your savings then its time to recalculate everything and trying to control everything rather than running away from the situation because if you commit suicide then you are going to pass all your financial problems to your family members who need to handle all the burden. Think once before you do such a act and try to handle the situation and win over it.
Relationship Problems - Most people who plan for suicide are ones who have relationship problems and are a lot depressed with the harassment feelings from their family and friends. Everyone has problems in their life and you should not react to them instantly and find for a quick solution, but give a deep thought on how these problems started and what should you do to make sure your relationships are abide. Dont think that what you do is always right and you are fulfilling your duties because sometimes others expect something else from you and if you perform those things you can make them more happy and solve your relationship problems. A Broken relationship would ruin your life, hence its better to solve those problems than looking for suicide plans.
No one can patch your relationship problems, hence you should not wait for someone else to help you out in your problem. You need to solve your own problems and convince yourself that, the next day would be a lot better and your problems would be solved. Its all about thinking positively and avoiding negative thoughts, because positive thinking can not only help out out in getting new ideas in on how to handle the situation but also helps you in making sure that your relationships are maintained.
Stop being a jealous person who thinks only about himself and think about every who cares about you. You are not a person who has joined the millitary army where your family already knews whats your future, but when you are a person who lives in a family then you should never think about suicide. Its a real cruel act and many people do say that ‘If i commit suicide, whats your problem’ but its a problem for everyone and not just you.
Note : The title of the post can be misleading because i wanted the readers who have these kind of wrong plans should drop these plans and read the above article first before proceeding their steps towards suicidal practice.
If you are still depressed and are looking for solutions then you should contact these helplines where there are true humans who are looking to help you out in your suicide problems. So now stop thinking about Painless ways to commit suicide and contact these people.
Suicide Prevention Lifeline – 1-800-273-TALK
Sneha India – 91-44-24640050
5 Minutes Suicide Guide
NIMH Suicide Prevention
Save.Org
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THis is scary and like your other article even this one will get awesome comments..
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This is the worst suicide article ever and if you care about the topic you will delete the webpage immediately. This is completely misguided and shows no compassion or understanding for what it’s like to be depressed or feel alone. MY GOD.
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you know all these people that say they care about us but the things they put on the internet are encouraging us to do it, have you ever thought why there are more suicides now than ever? because now people are making it easier and showing us how to do it
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i am in a big confusion, after reading your aryticle. i was thinking of suicide ,but now i got double minds .one says you have to die and other says you can servive in this world.but i must say one thing this article will be a great help.
thank you
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dont be suicide yu suhld wnt to live your life as it is..
imean muh life isnt all so go0d witha but im still living it cus iwna become something wen i get older (lawyer, dancer, and a modeler) but yea im tellin yu this frm experiences and im only 15 so yea plesz take muh advice…
thank yu
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ive bin depressed for a while and ave thought of suicide for a while people say its a selfish act but dey dont know how low people can actually get and that their the selfish ones who dont understand and dont even attempt to either. a m8 of mine did it a couple of weeks ago he had has got some guts coz ive tried to do it but chicken out in the end/. maybe oa drink or two will help
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This article is useless. Not helpful. Badly written. What was the point, preventing people with suicide feelings from taking their lives? It actually does make you want to kill yourself.
Take this rubbish off, please, before it does any more damage.
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Im scared of the unknown, I guess thats why I still havent gone through with ending my life. Im in such a rut…
I just got laid off, again. It took me a year and some odd months to get a job. My bf and I are not seeing eye to eye. I constantly am depressed and I have to lie to my bf and tell him Im fine. I have arguments with myself in my mind. My heart hurts and when something doesnt go according to plan, Ill just want to smoke pot. It alleviates me. My boyfriend doesnt want me smoking all the time. The only 3 things that take away my pain in making love with him, smoking or drinking. Im a mess. Im frustrated all the time. Im going to get left behind….Hes going to a university, he has everything going for him. Hes an intelligent, creative, talented. Hes everything I wanted. I cant give him what he wants. I dont want to loose him, but I cant let him see me like this any longer. I was fine for a few months, but today was the turn over…I lost it. I got a belt and started choking myself, I could feel myself loosing consciousness and I let go. I didnt want to let go but lack of oxygen your body goes limp. Every single night before I go to sleep, the only 2 things I think about is my boyfriend and killing myself, how would I look dead. I dunno Im really messed up. Im just writing for the fuck of it. I just figure I have nothing else to do then write about my stupid feelings. Like if anyone will give a fuck. Fuck life I didnt ask to be born. Believe or not, Im adopted. and My biological mom is a lesbian. 2 reasons why I was a mistake. She got married to leave her parents (knowing she was a homosexual). After a month she got divorced. She used protection but the condom popped. I wasnt planned. The only reason why she didnt have an abortion was because she was a catholic. Fuck…after writing this I feel better…and the only thing I look foward to is either smoking some pot or drinking myself to sleep….hopefully to death.
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We’re making a huge mistake. In the 1973 movie Soylent Green there were suicide centers people could visit where they could peacefully end their lives. That’s exactly what we need in the so-called “tough economic times.” If someone is laid off from their job, it means that society has no use for them. The Eskioms put their useless ones on an ice drift. I’d rather we have them report to a clinical facility where we can be rid of them, but let them go painlessly.
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i’m myself on the edge, there hasn’t been a day when i’ve not thought of killing myself, but i’m scared, scared of what will happen to the people i leave behind or scared of where would i go next, plus the thought of a screwed up suicide attempt, which i hear makes ur life even more unbearable.
people who are not feeling suicidal or have no reason to go in that direction can never comprehend why some of us think that way, imagine a life filled with regrets, right from ur childhood nothing went in the right direction every thing that happened further endorsed that you are a screw up, one gets tired of failing all the time, even though you take the best action but since you are taking it, it has to be spiked for some divine reason only god knows, i’m 42 years old & i can tell you i have failed in everything i’ve endeavored ever, & trust me under the same set of conditions other people who have made the same choices as i have, come out successful but in my case its like god’s shooting at me after trapping me in a cage & although he desperately tries to miss he misses & somehow gets me, its like all his plans are directed to make everything in my life back fire, not once has it happened that something i did or planned or contemplated got off well & ended well, no it didn’t never ever not even once, i’m so tired of the predictability of my screwed up life that i do not wish to live it anymore, i have found a few ways to go ahead & they seem alright, but after i get over with my fears etc i’ll go ahead. the only problem however is that i have a 5 year old son & i love him very much & i’m scared of his future after i’m gone but on second thoughts its way better even for him to have no father that have a father who’s an olympic loser
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jt Reply:
June 5th, 2009 at 8:37 pm
@gruffy, I have lost everything financial. From the penthouse to the outhouse. I am completely broke. Almost literally penniless. Many poor investment decisions. Cannot recover from. Every day is overwhelmingly brutal. Chased by collectors, vendors, utilities, etc…. I spend all my time navigating from one awful prospect to the next. I contemplate taking my life all the time. The escape from the unhappiness, joyless, and hopeless world i exist seems a viable option. I am terribly sad and ashamed. AT 51 this not anywhere close to where i thought i’d be. Three kids and a wife fear my moods and depression. I am in so much trouble i cannot see any light. I do not believe that i can kill myself deliberately, although i romance the notion constantly. In the end, i must endure and live to fight another day. How can i cop out and leave my kids with my failed legacy? I guess that why God gave usthe gift of Reason. Hang in there.
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RJ Reply:
July 16th, 2009 at 6:53 pm
@jt, 42 and single, but in the same financial mess. Damn this recession. Anyway, I believe I am still alive because of my two dogs who are like children to me. Who will take care of them like I do.
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molty Reply:
October 15th, 2009 at 9:12 am
well gruffy i’m sorry for what’s happened so far in your life, listen if the pattern of your life has been that for some reason, then my friend it will be like that for the rest of your life, you can either take it with a pinch of salt or pull the plug, personally i would like to continue but then i’m not in a position you are in therefore i cannot feel the same pain you do. although i do feel it would not be a very ideal thing to do, given that you have a 5 year old son, but hey if you wanna leave early, your son will understand when he grows up. see what you are choosing to do is very brave, it requires a lot of gut to kill your self so think about it before you do it.
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To those that have suicidal thoughts because you lose your job, dont have the money you use to, if you have someone in your life that suports you and wants to be with you that is what should be important, money should not mean so much to you. Try being with some one any amount of time and this person being your whole world, the one you want to spend the rest of your life with, that you would give you own life for. Have this person 1 day tell you that you are not what they want
, your whole world turned upside down. I have been poor all my life, but i would trade you any day, money problems can be fixed, the way someone feels about you cant. You can always make more money, you cant make someone love you. So if you have someone in your life that loves you for you and wants to spend the rest of their life with you be happy. Money is not that big a deal. I’m not saying money situations shouldnt bring you down, just saying having money is not as important as being truly loved.
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hey it appears Gruffy has hung his boots, he hasn’t been around ever since, is it possible or he has just withdrawn, good lord i hope not, gruffy if you are reading this pls reply.
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i think these guys inform people who have posted thru emails, gruffy if u are around buddy pls reply, i don’t know about others but i care, i hope things have worked out for you brother, pls reply the moment you see this message,
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