Comments on: Suicide – Solution to Financial & Relationship Problems? http://www.amitbhawani.com/blog/suicide-financial-relationship-problems/ Stay Updated with the Latest Tech Info! Sat, 21 Nov 2009 03:22:41 +0530 hourly 1 By: molty http://www.amitbhawani.com/blog/suicide-financial-relationship-problems/#comment-32524 molty Sat, 07 Nov 2009 20:53:52 +0000 http://www.amitbhawani.com/blog/?p=1914#comment-32524 i think these guys inform people who have posted thru emails, gruffy if u are around buddy pls reply, i don't know about others but i care, i hope things have worked out for you brother, pls reply the moment you see this message, i think these guys inform people who have posted thru emails, gruffy if u are around buddy pls reply, i don’t know about others but i care, i hope things have worked out for you brother, pls reply the moment you see this message,

]]> By: molty http://www.amitbhawani.com/blog/suicide-financial-relationship-problems/#comment-32523 molty Sat, 07 Nov 2009 20:50:26 +0000 http://www.amitbhawani.com/blog/?p=1914#comment-32523 hey it appears Gruffy has hung his boots, he hasn't been around ever since, is it possible or he has just withdrawn, good lord i hope not, gruffy if you are reading this pls reply. hey it appears Gruffy has hung his boots, he hasn’t been around ever since, is it possible or he has just withdrawn, good lord i hope not, gruffy if you are reading this pls reply.

]]> By: Carl http://www.amitbhawani.com/blog/suicide-financial-relationship-problems/#comment-32457 Carl Fri, 06 Nov 2009 14:32:57 +0000 http://www.amitbhawani.com/blog/?p=1914#comment-32457 To those that have suicidal thoughts because you lose your job, dont have the money you use to, if you have someone in your life that suports you and wants to be with you that is what should be important, money should not mean so much to you. Try being with some one any amount of time and this person being your whole world, the one you want to spend the rest of your life with, that you would give you own life for. Have this person 1 day tell you that you are not what they want , your whole world turned upside down. I have been poor all my life, but i would trade you any day, money problems can be fixed, the way someone feels about you cant. You can always make more money, you cant make someone love you. So if you have someone in your life that loves you for you and wants to spend the rest of their life with you be happy. Money is not that big a deal. I'm not saying money situations shouldnt bring you down, just saying having money is not as important as being truly loved. To those that have suicidal thoughts because you lose your job, dont have the money you use to, if you have someone in your life that suports you and wants to be with you that is what should be important, money should not mean so much to you. Try being with some one any amount of time and this person being your whole world, the one you want to spend the rest of your life with, that you would give you own life for. Have this person 1 day tell you that you are not what they want
, your whole world turned upside down. I have been poor all my life, but i would trade you any day, money problems can be fixed, the way someone feels about you cant. You can always make more money, you cant make someone love you. So if you have someone in your life that loves you for you and wants to spend the rest of their life with you be happy. Money is not that big a deal. I’m not saying money situations shouldnt bring you down, just saying having money is not as important as being truly loved.

]]> By: molty http://www.amitbhawani.com/blog/suicide-financial-relationship-problems/#comment-31430 molty Thu, 15 Oct 2009 09:12:52 +0000 http://www.amitbhawani.com/blog/?p=1914#comment-31430 well gruffy i'm sorry for what's happened so far in your life, listen if the pattern of your life has been that for some reason, then my friend it will be like that for the rest of your life, you can either take it with a pinch of salt or pull the plug, personally i would like to continue but then i'm not in a position you are in therefore i cannot feel the same pain you do. although i do feel it would not be a very ideal thing to do, given that you have a 5 year old son, but hey if you wanna leave early, your son will understand when he grows up. see what you are choosing to do is very brave, it requires a lot of gut to kill your self so think about it before you do it. well gruffy i’m sorry for what’s happened so far in your life, listen if the pattern of your life has been that for some reason, then my friend it will be like that for the rest of your life, you can either take it with a pinch of salt or pull the plug, personally i would like to continue but then i’m not in a position you are in therefore i cannot feel the same pain you do. although i do feel it would not be a very ideal thing to do, given that you have a 5 year old son, but hey if you wanna leave early, your son will understand when he grows up. see what you are choosing to do is very brave, it requires a lot of gut to kill your self so think about it before you do it.

]]> By: RJ http://www.amitbhawani.com/blog/suicide-financial-relationship-problems/#comment-27158 RJ Thu, 16 Jul 2009 18:53:23 +0000 http://www.amitbhawani.com/blog/?p=1914#comment-27158 <a href="#comment-25349" rel="nofollow">@jt</a>, 42 and single, but in the same financial mess. Damn this recession. Anyway, I believe I am still alive because of my two dogs who are like children to me. Who will take care of them like I do. @jt, 42 and single, but in the same financial mess. Damn this recession. Anyway, I believe I am still alive because of my two dogs who are like children to me. Who will take care of them like I do.

]]> By: jt http://www.amitbhawani.com/blog/suicide-financial-relationship-problems/#comment-25349 jt Fri, 05 Jun 2009 20:37:05 +0000 http://www.amitbhawani.com/blog/?p=1914#comment-25349 <a href="#comment-23613" rel="nofollow">@gruffy</a>, I have lost everything financial. From the penthouse to the outhouse. I am completely broke. Almost literally penniless. Many poor investment decisions. Cannot recover from. Every day is overwhelmingly brutal. Chased by collectors, vendors, utilities, etc.... I spend all my time navigating from one awful prospect to the next. I contemplate taking my life all the time. The escape from the unhappiness, joyless, and hopeless world i exist seems a viable option. I am terribly sad and ashamed. AT 51 this not anywhere close to where i thought i'd be. Three kids and a wife fear my moods and depression. I am in so much trouble i cannot see any light. I do not believe that i can kill myself deliberately, although i romance the notion constantly. In the end, i must endure and live to fight another day. How can i cop out and leave my kids with my failed legacy? I guess that why God gave usthe gift of Reason. Hang in there. @gruffy, I have lost everything financial. From the penthouse to the outhouse. I am completely broke. Almost literally penniless. Many poor investment decisions. Cannot recover from. Every day is overwhelmingly brutal. Chased by collectors, vendors, utilities, etc…. I spend all my time navigating from one awful prospect to the next. I contemplate taking my life all the time. The escape from the unhappiness, joyless, and hopeless world i exist seems a viable option. I am terribly sad and ashamed. AT 51 this not anywhere close to where i thought i’d be. Three kids and a wife fear my moods and depression. I am in so much trouble i cannot see any light. I do not believe that i can kill myself deliberately, although i romance the notion constantly. In the end, i must endure and live to fight another day. How can i cop out and leave my kids with my failed legacy? I guess that why God gave usthe gift of Reason. Hang in there.

]]> By: gruffy http://www.amitbhawani.com/blog/suicide-financial-relationship-problems/#comment-23613 gruffy Thu, 23 Apr 2009 11:57:04 +0000 http://www.amitbhawani.com/blog/?p=1914#comment-23613 i'm myself on the edge, there hasn't been a day when i've not thought of killing myself, but i'm scared, scared of what will happen to the people i leave behind or scared of where would i go next, plus the thought of a screwed up suicide attempt, which i hear makes ur life even more unbearable. people who are not feeling suicidal or have no reason to go in that direction can never comprehend why some of us think that way, imagine a life filled with regrets, right from ur childhood nothing went in the right direction every thing that happened further endorsed that you are a screw up, one gets tired of failing all the time, even though you take the best action but since you are taking it, it has to be spiked for some divine reason only god knows, i'm 42 years old & i can tell you i have failed in everything i've endeavored ever, & trust me under the same set of conditions other people who have made the same choices as i have, come out successful but in my case its like god's shooting at me after trapping me in a cage & although he desperately tries to miss he misses & somehow gets me, its like all his plans are directed to make everything in my life back fire, not once has it happened that something i did or planned or contemplated got off well & ended well, no it didn't never ever not even once, i'm so tired of the predictability of my screwed up life that i do not wish to live it anymore, i have found a few ways to go ahead & they seem alright, but after i get over with my fears etc i'll go ahead. the only problem however is that i have a 5 year old son & i love him very much & i'm scared of his future after i'm gone but on second thoughts its way better even for him to have no father that have a father who's an olympic loser i’m myself on the edge, there hasn’t been a day when i’ve not thought of killing myself, but i’m scared, scared of what will happen to the people i leave behind or scared of where would i go next, plus the thought of a screwed up suicide attempt, which i hear makes ur life even more unbearable.
people who are not feeling suicidal or have no reason to go in that direction can never comprehend why some of us think that way, imagine a life filled with regrets, right from ur childhood nothing went in the right direction every thing that happened further endorsed that you are a screw up, one gets tired of failing all the time, even though you take the best action but since you are taking it, it has to be spiked for some divine reason only god knows, i’m 42 years old & i can tell you i have failed in everything i’ve endeavored ever, & trust me under the same set of conditions other people who have made the same choices as i have, come out successful but in my case its like god’s shooting at me after trapping me in a cage & although he desperately tries to miss he misses & somehow gets me, its like all his plans are directed to make everything in my life back fire, not once has it happened that something i did or planned or contemplated got off well & ended well, no it didn’t never ever not even once, i’m so tired of the predictability of my screwed up life that i do not wish to live it anymore, i have found a few ways to go ahead & they seem alright, but after i get over with my fears etc i’ll go ahead. the only problem however is that i have a 5 year old son & i love him very much & i’m scared of his future after i’m gone but on second thoughts its way better even for him to have no father that have a father who’s an olympic loser

]]> By: Chikano http://www.amitbhawani.com/blog/suicide-financial-relationship-problems/#comment-22224 Chikano Fri, 13 Mar 2009 16:10:34 +0000 http://www.amitbhawani.com/blog/?p=1914#comment-22224 We're making a huge mistake. In the 1973 movie Soylent Green there were suicide centers people could visit where they could peacefully end their lives. That's exactly what we need in the so-called "tough economic times." If someone is laid off from their job, it means that society has no use for them. The Eskioms put their useless ones on an ice drift. I'd rather we have them report to a clinical facility where we can be rid of them, but let them go painlessly. We’re making a huge mistake. In the 1973 movie Soylent Green there were suicide centers people could visit where they could peacefully end their lives. That’s exactly what we need in the so-called “tough economic times.” If someone is laid off from their job, it means that society has no use for them. The Eskioms put their useless ones on an ice drift. I’d rather we have them report to a clinical facility where we can be rid of them, but let them go painlessly.

]]> By: Rita http://www.amitbhawani.com/blog/suicide-financial-relationship-problems/#comment-22064 Rita Tue, 10 Mar 2009 01:20:28 +0000 http://www.amitbhawani.com/blog/?p=1914#comment-22064 Im scared of the unknown, I guess thats why I still havent gone through with ending my life. Im in such a rut... I just got laid off, again. It took me a year and some odd months to get a job. My bf and I are not seeing eye to eye. I constantly am depressed and I have to lie to my bf and tell him Im fine. I have arguments with myself in my mind. My heart hurts and when something doesnt go according to plan, Ill just want to smoke pot. It alleviates me. My boyfriend doesnt want me smoking all the time. The only 3 things that take away my pain in making love with him, smoking or drinking. Im a mess. Im frustrated all the time. Im going to get left behind....Hes going to a university, he has everything going for him. Hes an intelligent, creative, talented. Hes everything I wanted. I cant give him what he wants. I dont want to loose him, but I cant let him see me like this any longer. I was fine for a few months, but today was the turn over...I lost it. I got a belt and started choking myself, I could feel myself loosing consciousness and I let go. I didnt want to let go but lack of oxygen your body goes limp. Every single night before I go to sleep, the only 2 things I think about is my boyfriend and killing myself, how would I look dead. I dunno Im really messed up. Im just writing for the fuck of it. I just figure I have nothing else to do then write about my stupid feelings. Like if anyone will give a fuck. Fuck life I didnt ask to be born. Believe or not, Im adopted. and My biological mom is a lesbian. 2 reasons why I was a mistake. She got married to leave her parents (knowing she was a homosexual). After a month she got divorced. She used protection but the condom popped. I wasnt planned. The only reason why she didnt have an abortion was because she was a catholic. Fuck...after writing this I feel better...and the only thing I look foward to is either smoking some pot or drinking myself to sleep....hopefully to death. Im scared of the unknown, I guess thats why I still havent gone through with ending my life. Im in such a rut…

I just got laid off, again. It took me a year and some odd months to get a job. My bf and I are not seeing eye to eye. I constantly am depressed and I have to lie to my bf and tell him Im fine. I have arguments with myself in my mind. My heart hurts and when something doesnt go according to plan, Ill just want to smoke pot. It alleviates me. My boyfriend doesnt want me smoking all the time. The only 3 things that take away my pain in making love with him, smoking or drinking. Im a mess. Im frustrated all the time. Im going to get left behind….Hes going to a university, he has everything going for him. Hes an intelligent, creative, talented. Hes everything I wanted. I cant give him what he wants. I dont want to loose him, but I cant let him see me like this any longer. I was fine for a few months, but today was the turn over…I lost it. I got a belt and started choking myself, I could feel myself loosing consciousness and I let go. I didnt want to let go but lack of oxygen your body goes limp. Every single night before I go to sleep, the only 2 things I think about is my boyfriend and killing myself, how would I look dead. I dunno Im really messed up. Im just writing for the fuck of it. I just figure I have nothing else to do then write about my stupid feelings. Like if anyone will give a fuck. Fuck life I didnt ask to be born. Believe or not, Im adopted. and My biological mom is a lesbian. 2 reasons why I was a mistake. She got married to leave her parents (knowing she was a homosexual). After a month she got divorced. She used protection but the condom popped. I wasnt planned. The only reason why she didnt have an abortion was because she was a catholic. Fuck…after writing this I feel better…and the only thing I look foward to is either smoking some pot or drinking myself to sleep….hopefully to death.

]]> By: pissoff http://www.amitbhawani.com/blog/suicide-financial-relationship-problems/#comment-22059 pissoff Mon, 09 Mar 2009 22:03:02 +0000 http://www.amitbhawani.com/blog/?p=1914#comment-22059 This article is useless. Not helpful. Badly written. What was the point, preventing people with suicide feelings from taking their lives? It actually does make you want to kill yourself. Take this rubbish off, please, before it does any more damage. This article is useless. Not helpful. Badly written. What was the point, preventing people with suicide feelings from taking their lives? It actually does make you want to kill yourself.

Take this rubbish off, please, before it does any more damage.

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